My daughter has a close friend who has been mentioned here. She has sort of disappeared lately. I know she has classes 5 days a week, and she works 5 evenings a week, and she was helping her mom who hurt her arm at work. So, I wasn't exactly worried.
But the last time she disappeared, it was because she was involved with an abusive boyfriend. And she's back with him...
I don't understand why.
When they broke up, and she talked about what had happened in the relationship. I didn't think she would ever go back to him. I can see making the same mistake with a different man - learning the patterns...But going back to someone who left you bruised.
Why?
Why do we think we are so unlovable? Why are we so anxious to be validated by a man's attention?
It's late. I'm going to go ruminate.
Love and hugs to you...
Clare
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