OK, so our first mission is going to be create new definitions.
A virgin is someone who has not yet decided to engage in vaginal intercourse. Rape and incest and abuse do not determine virginity.
An honor killing is when a family is honor bound to kill any man who could be so bestial as to hurt any woman or child, especially by sexual assault. These men, upon recognizing their own inhumanity must commit suicide or the family must ... I don't know, what do they do to their assaulted daughters - burn them alive? stone them? Recognizing that the woman are innocent, the family must thereby recognize the culprit and do what is fair to maintain the family's honor.
Creative outercourse is going to become mandatory sex education until we figure out how to bond vulnerability and pleasure and intimacy all into one juicy place again. Young men will become attentive lovers, and stop simply banging anything they can corner. People will look down on the manhood and prowess of anyone who engages in any sexual behavior that is not transparent, consensual and between equals.
It doesn't matter what our brothers did to you as a child. It doesn't matter what our father, or maybe even uncles did. You were a virgin when you were a teen. I want you to own that. I want you to redefine yourself, to see yourself the way you were before the memories destroyed them.
I'm still not feeling well. I was up a lot last night. So my thoughts are still not as coherent as possible.
Hopefully I'll be back to normalish tomorrow...
Love you little sister...
Clarre
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