I worry sometimes that we don't spend enough time together as a family...I mean, I worry in general, but specifically about my children and their families.
But we get together, like tonight, and I am left with sweet feelings. I have so many snapshots in my head to treasure. Uncles playing with kids, kids being passed around the table, conversations.
They are all so beautiful. I am so grateful, for each of them.
Tonight, we had a German themed dinner, as chosen by the birthday boy. I made a lettuce with hot bacon dressing salad - yeah, I know. I don't eat bacon, but...I was thinking about it, and these kids are the fifth known generation to eat this recipe.
I made it for my mother-in-law's mother once. She was my favorite person in the extended in-law family. I loved her so much. She asked how I had learned to make it, and then told me that she had made the same dish the very first time my father-in-law came to her house for dinner, when he was first dating my mother-in-law.
I like tying a family together through history through foods.
I had my son's two kids here overnight. They helped me pick apples that we used to make an apple streudel. My daughter-in-law called to check in and to see if they wanted to come home for a few hours. They both said no, but then my granddaughter realized it was Sunday and she had homework to do. So she went home for a few hours, and the boy stayed with me. So he rolled a streudel. It was so much fun having him...
So, nice day. No phones at the table - and it's not even a rule. Everyone was just here. Simply present.
I am grateful.
Love and hugs from Clare
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